For a human, you are tiny. [you are shorter than Gil, that is SHORT] I am officially sorry Earth people are weird, but that's kind of just what happens with us these days.
I am used to being shorter than most. Elezen tend to be six fulms and Roegadyn tend not to stand shorter than six fulms and eleven ilms.
...Is there a usual way people from Earth tackle this situation in which I have found myself? Because I have never been on a date before, let alone in a place with different customs.
Depends on how the dinner goes. If he's being a gentleman, just let it happen. There's like a ninety percent chance this will just be dinner, since it's a first date. And then you can tease him about it when we're all back in Liminal Space afterwards. [Gil has priorities.]
If he's being weird or creepy or unpleasant, feel free to walk. Either way, you should tell him tomorrow that it was really sweet of him, but you're not looking for anyone to date right now. Especially since we're only here for a couple more weeks.
I mean, if you were enjoying the dinner before it got Weird, you gotta weigh up whether quitting in the middle of it is worth trying to explain that it's too weird because you think this local looks like the guy who's fucking your brother.
Or you could not explain that, but like. People like knowing roughly why you don't wanna do something with them.
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...Is there a usual way people from Earth tackle this situation in which I have found myself? Because I have never been on a date before, let alone in a place with different customs.
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If he's being weird or creepy or unpleasant, feel free to walk. Either way, you should tell him tomorrow that it was really sweet of him, but you're not looking for anyone to date right now. Especially since we're only here for a couple more weeks.
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And you think that is the best way to go about it? [She sounds clearly uncertain, Q'uila is very rarely noticeably uncertain.]
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Or you could not explain that, but like. People like knowing roughly why you don't wanna do something with them.
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I shall have to tell him I did not realise this was a date aren't I? [She sounds about as thrilled as you would expect.]
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I shall let you know how this turns out. I believe it shall probably continue to provide you with a source of humour.
[There is no heat to the words, just exasperation.]