I know, but it's what they've given us to work with. We just need to use it efficiently.

You really think I'm cool? That makes me feel a bit less like someone's awkward great-uncle, thank you!

Oh. Well. Congratulations to Gavin, and... I would say any conversation about it should kick off with a confirmation that your overlays aren't you and perhaps an offer to either a) discuss it, or b) never speak of it, ever. My overlays have never really had the chance to do much of anything of that nature! [and she hasn't since the seventies but she'll keep that silent]